Relationships can be confusing as to why some couples last
and why some people break-up. Why is it that some people find love and others
don’t? To help understand the many aspects of falling in love and being a
couple we have here 11 reasons why some women find love, and others don’t.
The right time in their lives
Timing is everything in life. The right thing at the wrong
time is the wrong thing. Finding love can have to do with the right timing in
life. When; careers, emotions, ambitions, and biological clock's align just
right. Where the both of them met and were looking for love in the right time
in their lives, that`s when love will strike.
Luck
Whether it's that they met the right people, or have a lot
of connections, luck can sometimes be the final factor. Is it luck, or just
getting out there and meeting the right people and making yourself as available
to meeting as many as possible?
Acceptance, make him feel accepted
Acceptance is what can attract men. A woman who won't expect
too much from him or the way he acts, what she wants from the relationship or
the gifts she gets from him. He wants life to be easy going, so naturally, will
want to be with someone who can keep it that way.
Independent/ Make him feel needed
A woman who comes off as independent, financially,
emotionally, and in other ways can be what attracts him. Acting too needy can
be a turn-off. But did we know that being independent can be a turn-on? Coming
off as independent has a way of making men believe she needs to be pursued, and
men just need an invitation to do the chasing.
On the other hand, some women are the opposite. This can
also be a turn-on to some men. There are men out there who want to take care of
their lady, and a more dependent woman can reach his masculine, heroic, loving
side.
To be safe if you don't know him yet, display both sides and
have a healthy balance of each, not overbearing on either.
Gets along with friends and family
Many times a relationship doesn't just have to do with the
couple involved, but with friends and family as well. This means that now and
then it's not just about the chemistry between the couple, but how well she
fits in with family and friends. Where lovers may come and go friends and
family are more long-term. So if he has to make a choice between the two, he
can sometime pick his friends over her, as they're the more lasting of the two.
Balance
Men can find stability in a woman attractive because they
don't want someone who doesn't know how to control her emotional intelligence
or issues which may come up in life. Men aren't going to like drama and do like
to keep things easy going, so this is why they want a stable match.
Fits into his everyday living
Sometimes the chemistry doesn't have to do with her, but
with his lifestyle. Many factors can come into play, his financial situation,
their goals, vacationing, mobility, people he associates with, and other
factors. This means that two people's lifestyles will affect their chemistry
and attraction towards each other. At times it really doesn`t have to do with
her or anything she did, it was just that she didn`t fit into his lifestyle.
The right friends
Friends and family who have paired them up well could be the
element that made love happen. They could just be fortunate enough that when
her friend met the right man for her, she was thinking of matching them
together. Most of the time life isn`t about your own abilities, but who you
know in life. Get the word out that you`re looking for a match, who knows,
maybe your friend knows just the right guy for you. They`ve just forgotten
about your present situation.
Meeting in the right environment
Finding love can be very much like fishing. If you're
fishing in the ocean, you're not going to catch a fresh water fish. Finding
love means looking for love in the right places. Meeting the man of your dreams
means only seeking for him in places that he will most likely be found. Join
clubs and do activities that feature the qualities that you find attractive in
the man of your dreams. Looking for him in the wrong place is just going to
throw away your time and could even distract you with the wrong kind of guy.
What others want is different than what you do
Not only is the opposite sex confused about what the other
finds attractive, but each individual is different. Individuals can have unique
standards about what they find attractive in the opposite sex, especially about
personality traits.
Don't close doors
Most couples don't fall in love at first sight. Sometimes
attraction takes time to happen. Writing him off as unattractive or putting him
in the friend zone too early can be hasty.
Most couples are established from friendships and people spending time
together before deciding whether they are attracted to each other or not.
These are the many factors that can contribute to love, and
questioning why a couple has it won`t always give you the results that will
help you find love. Keep looking, stay upbeat, and keep your hopes up, love
will find you soon.
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